Obituary of Paul Strader Cummings

Paul Strader Cummings
(November 4, 1929 - January 15, 2025)

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Paul Strader Cummings, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and friend, who passed away peacefully on January 15, 2025, at the age of 95. Born on November 4, 1929 in Toronto, Ontario, Paul grew up in Ballantrae and lived a full and remarkable life, one that spanned nearly a century of adventures, family, and friendship.

Paul’s love story with his beloved wife, Mo, began with their marriage on June 19, 1954. Together, they built a life rich in love and laughter, traveling the world, hosting friends, and raising four children. Their shared adventures laid the foundation for a close-knit family, a legacy Paul took immense pride in. He was the proud father of sons Peter (Hiroko), Rob (Linda), and Doug (Michele), and daughter Gayle (Mike). He is also survived by his 13 grandchildren and 18 great-grandchildren, who were his greatest joy and whose success and happiness brought him deep satisfaction. The legacy of Paul’s love and dedication lives on through his large, thriving family—so much so that there are 3 Pauls and 2 who share his middle name.

Paul was a proud engineer, having studied Engineering and Business at the University of Toronto University life included joining the Kappa Sigma fraternity, and forming a bridge club with 3 other couples that lasted throughout their lives. Over the years, Paul recited the Calling of an Engineer three times - once as a graduate himself, and twice in support of his grandchildren when he placed iron rings on their fingers. Paul’s technical prowess was aided by his business acumen as he rose through the corporate ranks and eventually became the Branch Manager of IBM’s office in Victoria, BC. He worked for many years in sales and later in Management Development programs at IBM.

While in Victoria, Paul had the novel idea of prefabricating a cottage in the driveway, and shipping it in a CN container 4,200 km to Eagle Lake, near Parham, Ontario. It was here that Paul thrived as he poured his heart into making it a destination his entire family could enjoy. His love of lake life was infectious and was passed onto his children and grandchildren. His family’s most cherished memories include rides in the red wagon, collecting firewood, raking leaves, maintaining the wood chip path, water skiing behind his “Cucumber Boat”, and sailing his Laser. But most of all, watching him enjoy his signature gin and tonic (rye and water in the winter) and copious appetizers during Happy Hour with family and fellow cottagers. 

Paul was a man of many passions. He cherished his time with friends, whether it was at luncheons with former IBM colleagues or his beloved Kappa Sigma fraternity brothers. He was an avid car enthusiast, with a particular fondness for his Cadillac. He also held a private pilot’s license, flying regularly between Vancouver Island and the mainland. Every year, he and Mo would ski together in Kananaskis, creating memories that would last a lifetime. Even as time passed, Paul’s zest for life never waned, and he remained as social and engaging as ever.

Paul was also known for his quiet moments, sitting on the porch, enjoying a drink, and watching the activities on the farm. Despite his many accomplishments, he was content to observe and appreciate the simple pleasures of life. Mo was always by his side, and not a day went by without him reflecting on the love and friendship they shared, a love that remained constant throughout their nearly seven decades of marriage.

In his final years, Paul received exceptional care at Amica Unionville, where he found comfort and companionship, and at Markham Stouffville Hospital, where he passed away with the support of compassionate doctors and nurses.

Paul’s legacy is one of love, family, friendship, and a life well-lived. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him and remembered fondly for the joy he brought into the lives of those around him. The family will be holding a private celebration of his life. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Markham Stouffville Hospital Foundation.